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Anxiety, however it manifests itself, is a normal and expected part of life. Whether it’s brought on by stress, tiredness or an underlying disorder, people can experience anxiety over just about anything.

Whatever the cause, there are some simple steps you can take to manage anxious feelings and ensure they don’t exhaust you.

Take a deep breath
This might seem like the most obvious piece of advice, but when your heart is racing it can be easily forgotten. Stress triggers our fight-or-flight response and we begin to breathe rapidly from the upper part of our lungs only. That is why anxiety attacks are often associated with shortness of breath and dizziness. Try inhaling air deeply, first into your stomach and then into your chest. Hold for a count of four and exhale slowly. By repeating this breathing technique your body will soon get the air it needs and you’ll feel calmer.

Get a restful sleep
Easier said than done, we know. Give your body every opportunity to relax before bed, by switching off the TV and putting the phone away. Make time for just taking it easy – have a bath, read a book or sit down with a cup of herbal tea. If you find that bed is where your mind starts racing, try to write a few lines down on paper before turning off the light, to ensure your head is clear.

Address anxious thoughts
Our thoughts can often spiral out of control, leading us to the worst case scenario in a matter of seconds. Next time you find yourself thinking negatively, ask yourself, “Is this realistic?” or “How likely is this to actually happen?” Challenge your own mind and try to correct negative thoughts to make them easier to overcome.

Use your support network
Staying connected with friends and loved ones is extremely important to help you take control of stress or anxiety. Rather than bottling up what you’re feeling, make time for a phone call or catch up. Even if you don’t address the issue directly, engaging with someone can do the world of good.

Accept your anxiety
Stress and panic can seem overwhelming – giving you no time to sit back and get some perspective. It might seem like a step backwards to accept your anxious thoughts, but it can be a good strategy for controlling them. Be aware that any state of anxiety is temporary, observe it and let it pass.

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Scarlett Johansson is officially a mum after giving birth to a baby girl!

The star’s rep revealed the news, saying that “mother and daughter are doing well.”

Scarlett and her fiancé Romain Dauriac have named their little girl Rose – we love it! And it has connotations with the colour red, just like her mum's name – it's perfect!

We don’t think we’ll be seeing any photos of little Rose any time soon though, as the couple are supporters of the ‘No Kids Policy’ which aims to keep celebrity children out of the spotlight, and they have asked for people to respect their privacy. Scarlett even kept out of the limelight herself during the course of her pregnancy, though we did get the odd sighting of her cute baby bump!

Scarlett and Romain been together since November 2012, and got engaged in August 2013. However, the actress isn’t in any rush to get married as she wants to enjoy being engaged as it is “an exciting time to enjoy and to really savour.” Awh! We hope she enjoys being a mum too, congratulations!

 

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Today the Queen of Pop, Beyoncé herself, turns 33.

She’s never been afraid to show off her curves, and in celebration of her birthday, we’re taking a look back at 10 times that B’s style was undeniably #flawless…

1. The time she braved the pain of a mosaic leotard for us, her fans:
Beyoncé played a blinder at the MTV Video Music Awards last month. As well as receiving the Video Vanguard award recognising her amazing achievements in music, she also closed the ceremony with a 15-minute medley of songs from her recent album. Oh, and she looked incredible while doing it. Applause!

2. When she changed the colours of the US flag to suit her outfit:
You wouldn’t catch us doing this with the Tricolour. Bey wowed fans during the On The Run tour back in June, as she went all dominatrix with a leather leotard and thigh-high boots. Whoever was operating the wind machine did a VERY good job that night.

3.The time she outshone a grand piano:
Queen B had a gazillion costume changes during the recent Mrs Carter tour, but we love this sparkling midnight blue catsuit from the New York leg of the concerts in December. So practical for lying on grand pianos, too.

4. When she borrowed her gran’s net curtains and looked FIERCE:
This is Beyoncé at her very best, performing at Rock in Rio last September. Who else could pull off a see-through white leotard? We’re in awe.

5. When she became a total rock chick:
Bey’s Superbowl performance last year was one of the most hotly anticipated performances of the year, and it didn’t disappointment. Not only did she look awesome in this black leather and lace outfit, but the Destiny’s Child ladies even joined her for a few songs.

6. The time she took her diva status to the maximum in this sequinned blazer:
Beyoncé. Pyramid Stage. Glastonbury. Sequins. Enough said.

7. The time she showed us all she was gonna be one hot mama:
Beyoncé revealed she was pregnant at the 2011 VMAs and the internet basically imploded with excitement… Can you believe that was 3 years ago?!

8. All the times she wowed us in Destiny’s Child
Okay, there was Kelly and Michelle, but Beyoncé was always the standout star of Destiny’s Child. Look at that smize! Tyra Banks would be proud.

 

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Tributes are flooding in on social media for comedienne Joan Rivers, whose death was confirmed this evening.

She may have been very controversial in her humour at times, but many have taken to Twitter to speak about how she was a friend and an inspiration:

Here’s one of our favourite of Joan’s moments, starring two divas – Miss Piggy and Miss Rivers:

 

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Comedienne Joan Rivers has passed away.

Her daughter Melissa confirmed the news in a statement this evening, which read, “She passed peacefully at 1:17pm surrounded by family and close friends.

“My mother’s greatest joy in life was to make people laugh. Although that is difficult to do right now, I know her final wish would be that we return to laughing soon.”

Joan was reportedly moved out of intensive care earlier today.

The star was rushed to hospital last week after complications occurred during a routine surgery.

Rest in peace, Joan.

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Tallulah Willis, daughter of Bruce Willis and Demi Moore, has left rehab after a six week stay for drug and alcohol abuse.

The fashion blogger checked herself into The Meadows clinic in Arizona in July after her parents reportedly gave her an “ultimatum”. A source close to Tallulah said at the time, “Her parents were about to take away everything from her.”

Tallulah was picked up from the facility yesterday morning by her mother.

She made a quick return to social media, posting images on Instagram from an interview with fashion site Stylelikeu, in which she talked very candidly about her struggles with an eating disorder and with body dysmorphia.

“It was like I was trapped in this body,” she said in the interview, speaking about how her weight dropped to just 95lbs, just under 7 stone, at one point.  "I viewed super-skinny me as smart, intelligent. I was able to have the physical transformation so everyone could see me differently," she said. 

Last month, a source close to the 20-year-old said that she had been “adversely affected” by her parents’ divorce in 2000, when she was just six.

However Tallulah admitted that she now has a more positive outlook on life and on her body. “For the first time, I like myself on the inside,” she said.

You can watch the full 9-minute interview below:

 

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If you’ve ever been cheated on, you’ll know how awful it feels. The pain of finding out, the shock that you’ve been deceived, and the urge to get out of there as fast as possible.

Once trust has been broken – in any situation – it can sometimes be impossible to rebuild. Not only are you now faced with the fact that your other half has gone behind your back and done something incredibly hurtful, but you also begin to think about all the other times it could have happened.

When he didn’t come home that time and said he’d gotten drunk and stayed at a friend’s house? When he always seemed to be chatting to that same girl on Facebook who he said was an old friend? When he stuck his phone in his pocket the moment you entered the room? Everything that might have been totally innocent now seems like just another time the wool was pulled over your eyes.

Although there’s going to be a huge period of anger and hurt to begin with, over time things will become clearer. In some cases, the damage is irreparable. In other cases, there may be a way you can move on and grow together again as a couple.

First things first, you need to be able to clarify what forgiveness means to you, and if it’s really worth it. Obviously if you have no desire ever to be in the same room as your former partner at any point in your life, forgiving them is out of the question. But if you truly believe that you could build things up again, ask yourself, can you put the past behind you and move on with a guilt-free heart? There’s no point in trying to work things out if the cheating is going to be a constant elephant in the room.

Secondly, and possibly most importantly, your other half needs to be openly and completely sorry for what has been done. If there’s an implication, no matter how subtle, that you are the one to blame – run. Even if your relationship was in a total shambles when he cheated, betraying you was not the answer. The answer was to talk things out, or to end things if needed. Never let yourself or anyone else feel that you are the one to blame for what happened. You are not the one who cheated.

Forgiveness isn’t the right answer for every couple, in fact in the majority of cases it definitely isn’t. But if you truly believe that there is still hope for your relationship – and if the feeling is mutual – it may be worth giving things a go again. Just make sure you’re both re-entering the relationship on even terms.

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Spotlight will see our entertainment reporter Niamh Geaney chatting to the stars each week bringing you all the juicy goss. Covering celebrities in music, movie and TV you won’t want to miss out!

This week we got chatting to one our favourite former TOWIE girls Sam Faiers. The beauty talks about what she thinks of her ex’s Mark Wright’s engagement to Michelle Keegan, her sexy new lingerie line and even discloses her fitness secrets!

If you’ve missed any of this week’s segments, fear not as Snapshot’s catch-up is on the way to you tomorrow.

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After what seemed like a very shaky year for Bey and husband Jay-Z, we were hoping he had something amazing up his sleeve for her birthday celebrations… and he didn’t disappoint!

The couple, along with baby Blue Ivy, were spotted arriving by private jet at the Bastia-Poretta airport in Corsica, and it’s expected they’ll now enjoy a relaxing holiday in the South of France.

A source told E! that the couple are looking forward to some family time. “They've had their problems but they're still solid. Going away for Beyoncé's birthday in September is a tradition they have. It's a chance to get some quality time together and relax far from worries about their crazy work schedules.”

With the couple playing in Paris next week as part of their On The Run tour, the holiday fits in well with their hectic calendar.

There’s be no camping or caravans for the glam couple though – apparently the Carters have rented a luxury yacht for the duration of their stay, with a price tag of around $800,000 per week. Wow!

With all the excitement surrounding Bey’s birthday, we feel it should be a national holiday… and it seems like we’re not the only ones! This fan took a stand earlier today and emailed her professor to say she couldn’t attend classes as it was the “the Goddess that is Queen Beyoncé Knowles-Carter’s birthday.”

Eh… could we get a copy of that letter? Might come in handy next September 4th! 

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Brittany Murphy’s father Angelo Bertolotti is really not happy about the biopic about his late daughter. He took to Twitter to voice his opinion after cringing while watching the trailer.

“I am disgusted and outraged that Lifetime decided to produce such a trashy project, defiling the memory of my beautiful, talented daughter, Brittany Murphy.”

“Lifetime’s casting was atrocious, Amanda Fuller, the girl playing Brittany, looks absolutely nothing like her. Everyone looks ridiculous in their bad wigs and the dialogue is nauseating.”

“#brttanymurphy would have been MORTIFIED if she knew what a mockery they made of her life and her gorgeous looks and talent. #unauthorized”

Amanda Fuller has replied to the comments in a recent interview and said she has had to block Brittany’s dad from Twitter:

“He can do what he wants. But I just think it is interesting that the minute she is back in the press he is all about, ‘I am going to sue’ and all that stuff. If he really respected his daughter's memory then I don't know if he would be trying to make all this controversy about it. Let her rest in peace.

“It is what it is. All of our hearts were in the right place. I had two days to prepare.

“I would have loved to have months of preparation and time to get down to a really skinny body so I could portray her physically better.

“We would have loved to have had more money and more time for vocal lessons and stuff like that. But in the end, I think it became less of it being a look-alike piece and more about just trying to capture the essence of who she was.”

While it can’t blame Angelo for being upset at what he sees as an inaccurate portrayal of his daughter, we really feel sorry for Amanda Fuller! It can’t be easy getting that kind of abuse when you’ve done your best! 

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Our new daily Fashion TV show 'The Style Show' delivers your daily dose of fabulous fashion!  In today's segment, "Fashion Flashback"  we take a nostalgic look back at the weird and wonderful wardrobe of current style icon Kim Kardashian who has just won GQ’s Woman of the Year award.

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Actress, Alyssa Milano has given birth to a baby girl!

The little girl, named Elizabella Dylan Bugliari, was born today weighing 7lbs 7oz.

This is the second child for Mistresses star Alyssa and her husband, David, who are already parents to three-year-old, Milo.

Alyssa announced she was expecting a little girl back in May with a sweet video revealing her happy news.

 

Congratulations to the family on their exciting new addition!

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