5 things to consider before wedding dress shopping

5 things to consider before wedding dress shopping

The ring is important, and you will wear it forever, but the dress — that’s what really makes a bride feel amazing on her big day.

Finding your dream gown can be stressful. Most likely you have never even tried one on before, and it’s the most expensive garment many women will ever own, so it can seem like a lot of pressure. Your dress sets the tone for the wedding, whether you decide on a designer ball gown or a casual beach flowy dress. These days, more brides are doing multiple dresses, a more formal one for the ceremony and a party-centric one for the reception, which can double the task of shopping.

Do research

Start by looking at dresses online and in bridal magazines to get a sense of the styles you’re drawn to. Look for a connecting theme — are they all very embellished? Lacy? Voluminous? Have open backs? Find a couple of commonalities of styles you like and bring your ideas to your first appointment. Do a good bit of online looking before you shop. Are there certain designers you keep going back to? Follow them on social media and you’ll find out about more styles and sales that way.

Make an appointment

Once you have an idea of what you want, it’s time to schedule appointments in bridal shops, and, if it fits your budget, a couture house. If you’re looking at high end wedding dresses, find out which stores carry them. Most places require an appointment, so call ahead at least two weeks in advance.

Budget

The average price of a wedding dress in the United States is just over $1,200, though the final cost depends heavily on the geographical areas. What if you simply don’t have the money to spend a fortune on a dress you’ll wear only once? You have a few options, buy second hand, rent a dress, wear a non-traditional dress, go simple or even borrow a dress.

Be open-minded

Fact. Some dresses look hideous on the hanger and gorgeous on your body. With that in mind, don’t turn your nose up at anything until you try it on. Even if you’ve always envisioned a ball gown, don’t be afraid of the A-line or fit and flare that was pulled for you. It’s the consultant’s job to match you with styles you’ll like, so give her the benefit of the doubt and prepare to be pleasantly surprised.

Limit who you bring along with you

Bringing a big group to the boutique is a wedding dress shopping don’t. Bring one or two of your closest friends or family members to help you start your search. It’s important to only bring someone whose opinion you truly respect and want. This way you can find the gown that best suits you and your style and not feels pressured by too many opinions.