When you meet that someone special, you naturally want to spend all your time with them. But there is often the danger that your close friends might feel neglected as a result.
Schedule
As ridiculous as it is going to sound, if you want to fit everyone in during the week, you are going to have to organise a schedule. Sometimes it’s a good idea to alternate the weekdays and weekends. You can spend some evenings with friends and then spend some weekends with your boyfriend. But most importantly, make sure your schedule makes you happy.
Group it up
Who said you can’t bring your friends out with your boyfriend? It doesn’t necessarily mean everyone has to get along, but if both your friends and boyfriend finally meet, they might understand why you value your relationships with them. Who knows, they could even become friends as a result.
Be honest
But if you’re struggling to keep everyone happy in this scenario, the best thing that you can do, is be honest. Explain to your boyfriend and your friends, that you are finding it difficult to spend time with everyone, but do value each of your relationships with them. Once they hear this, they will feel reassured and will often find a way to work it out.
You’re in a relationship with a guy you like – congrats! You are enjoying your time together and now you have to decide whether this guy is for the long haul. Whether you’re certain he’s your soul mate or you’re just not sure yet, here are 22 signs your boyfriend is a keeper.
1. He makes you laugh
Even if he isn’t funny to the public, he has you in hysterics. He is always making you laugh and you just cannot get enough.
2. He has sympathy for you when you’re sick
When you are sick he actually cares and has a lot of sympathy for you. He is genuinely concerned and now you know he is a keeper.
3. He is reliable He never lets you down and he never cancels plans. You always know you can rely on him.
4. He is consistent
He treats you well consistently. He doesn’t blow hot and cold. He doesn’t treat you badly and then make up for it with an elaborate gesture. He is always nice.
5. You are always excited to see him and vice versa
Even if you saw each other the night before, you still look forward to seeing him and you hope he does too.
6. He encourages you to go for your goals
He encourages you to apply for a job or enter a competition. He knows your dreams and future plans and fully stand by you.
7. He sometimes ditches the guys for you but not all the time
He ditches the guys for you sometimes. You don’t want him to do this all the time though, as he should spend time with his friends. There has to be a balance.
8. He doesn’t hide his problems from you
If there is something bothering him he will tell you. He won’t keep it bottled up inside until it becomes a bigger problem. He feels he can share things with you.
9. You can depend on him not to break plans
If you have planned something for ages, like a Valentine’s Day, birthday or holiday, he isn’t going to cancel on you last minute. And, do you know why? Because he is a great boyfriend.
10. He is your best friend
You are, before anything, great friends and that is why you get on so well. This is why you think it is just so perfect.
11. He loves his family
He gets on well with his family and you like what you see. This is a man with future promise.
12. His family like you
You get on well with his siblings and his mother just adores you. This makes you happy and you feel you have accomplished something.
13. He’s honest He has his own opinions and he is honest with you. He keeps you on your toes and he doesn’t let you walk all over him.
14. He’s always sees your side of an argument
If you get in a fight with your parents or your friends, he always is on your side no matter what. Even if it is blatantly obvious you’re in the wrong, he makes you feel like you’re not crazy for being angry.
15. You are always his plus one
No matter where he may be going – the cinema, a family gathering, a wedding – you are always his plus one. He wants to show you off.
16. He surprises you
It doesn’t have to be all the time but even something as small as a surprise bar of chocolate will make you love your man more. A bigger surprise may make you faint.
17. He would never bore you
There is always some intellectually stimulating conversation going on. You are never bored together and you just love that.
18. He gives you space and you give him his
You don’t overcrowd each other or get mad when the other hasn’t replied to your text after 2 minutes. It is a laid back yet fun but serious relationship.
19. He loves your family
He gets on with your family like you get on with his. Your parents love him and this makes you like him more.
20. He tells you that you are beautiful
He is always telling you that you look great. This gives you a well needed confidence boost and you love him for it.
21. He is passionate about a hobby or his job
He is passionate about a hobby of his and he knows where he wants to be in 10 years. This is the ‘can do’ attitude that you look for in a man.
22. He challenges you
You talk a lot of crap sometimes and he knows when to let you ramble and when to call you up on your waffle.
A little jealousy in a relationship is healthy to an extent, but once any of the below things factor into your life, it might just be the beginning of the end.
They have attempted to or have succeeded in hacking into your Facebook or email account
They don’t let you out of your sight on a night out
They get angry when you’re overly friendly to a waiter or bartender
They make you check in regularly when you’re not together
They have a massive problem with you going on holiday with your friends
They’re suspicious about who and what you’re texting
They get suspicious if you wear something out that’s revealing or sexy
They have tried to catch you out in situations they felt you weren’t being truthful about
…and they’re a jerk to anyone you’ve been with in the past
Miley Cyrus has been “hooking up” with Oscar-nominated actor, Jared Leto, according to US Weekly.
The two are said to be having fun together and they “love to talk about art and music and they’re both comfortable with nudity”. Well, that’s certainly no lie!
It has also been said that neither of the couple are looking for anything serious at the moment, especially following Miley’s broken engagement from The Hunger Games star, Liam Hemsworth.
Jared, who is more than twenty years older than the young singer, is up for an Oscar next month for his role as Rayon in Dallas Buyers Club.
1. He’ll always encourage you Ryan’s encouraging words can now be found on lots of workout gear – genius!
2. He understands women Ryan says he “thinks like a girl” because he was raised by his mom and sister. He’ll know we aren’t actually fine just because we say we are – yay!
3. He’ll never give up on you This scene is just so perfect … even after the 14th time of seeing it.
4. He’s officially the best kisser Ryan and Rachel McAdams won the MTV award for Best Kiss from The Notebook.
5. The obvious In the words of Emma Stone in Crazy Stupid Love, it’s like he’s photoshopped.
Introducing your boyfriend to your parents can be a daunting task – not just for your other half, but for your mum and dad as well.
However, stick with us and they will be putty in his hands in no time.
Give them a heads up Avoid arriving unexpectedly at your parent’s house with your boyfriend in tow.
Make sure he brings a gift Flowers for your mother and wine for you father are usually fool-proof presents.
Keep PDA to a minimum This includes holding hands. You want your parents to think he is a sweet and respectful boy.
Take it slow with the wine You’re not out with your mates now, so avoid downing the bottle. Both you and your boyfriend will need to keep your wits about you, especially when dad starts asking awkward questions.
Don’t try too hard and remember to relax. If he is a good guy, your parents will usually be able to spot it straight away.
