Five things to do with your partner when you’re OVER Valentine’s Day

Relationships

Jan 25, 2017

When you first begin dating your SO, Valentine's Day means roses and chocolates and pleasant surprises.

But, when you've been with your partner for yonks, the fad quickly runs dry and you'll be lucky to even get a card on V-Day.

So, if you still want that little bit of a spark on February 14, then we suggest you dip into one of these activities:

Cook a simple dinner at home

Going out on Valentine's night is extremely expensive, and it takes a whole lot of effort.

Keep things low-key by cooking dinner at home – it doesn't have to be anything fancy, just something you both enjoy.

Movie night

Pick a few movies that you both like, and then head to the shop and buy a heap load of popcorn, chocolate, cookies and whatever other sweets take your fancy.

Then grab a blanket a snuggle up on the couch together. Perfect.

Board games

We hardly ever play board games anymore, but if you have a little bit of a competitive side, they are SO fun.

Whip out all the old classics, pour a glass of vino, and your night is sorted.

Take away and TV

These two go together just as well as you and your significant other.

Sit back, order some yummy Chinese food, and binge on your favourite TV shows.

Stay in bed

Hey, why not? Put on your fancy undies (or *nothing*), light some candles and see where the night takes you.

You won't regret this one.

Hollywood couple break-up after almost three years together

Celebrity

Oct 28, 2014

by Amber Saunders

It’s all over for actress Debra Messing and her boyfriend of three years, Will Chase.

The couple began dating back in 2011 after meeting on the set of Smash.

An official statement from the couple's rep to US Weekly read: “Debra Messing and Will Chase have ended their two and a half year relationship but remain close friends.”

Will and Debra began dating back in 2011, not long after Debra's divorce from Daniel Zelman was announced.

Debra and Daniel have one son together, 10-year-old Roman, while Will is a dad to two teenage daughters, Daisy and Gracie, with his ex-wife Lori.

The Will and Grace actress is currently starring in a new crime-drama show called The Mysteries of Laura.

Will, meanwhile, appears frequently on Nashville.

13 things you will learn in your first long-term relationship

Uncategorized

Oct 22, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Being in a new relationship can be all kinds of weird and wonderful. If it's your first time being with someone for more than a few months, you will definitely find yourself learning some things you never knew! Like these:

1. You will send an obscene amount of texts to your significant other

Whether it's just a kissy face emoji or a long essay on WHY you slammed the door on your way to work that morning (they should already know why), you will find that it amounts to hundreds if not thousands of messages a month. Scary.

2. You’ll find that your attention span is much longer than you originally thought

They are expecting you to know what they do so you better learn what exactly that is. "Something to do with numbers, Excel and reports" just won't cut it anymore.

3. Some of the best relationships happen with someone you would never have thought was your type

Has it really been 8 months since you started going out with that guy you thought was a total numpty? Yes, and what's more is you love him!

4. Getting along with every single one of their friends is difficult

You should definitely try and get on with his friends, it's a big part of his life. However, you can't please all the people all the time – so just be your regular charming self and don't stress so much!

5. You’ll be their drunk minder at least once

But don't worry – at some stage you'll need the favour returned.

6. Meeting the parents never gets any less awkward

They're so lovely and treat you very well – but they still know what you're up to and that will never change.

7. You’ll be surprised at how quickly you become comfortable in their company

Whip out the jammies, take the slap off and relax because if they here for good they may as well see you in your truest form now.

8. Sometimes you hate them more than most people hate Adolf Hitler

Ultimate rage…

9. But most days you love them more than Prince Harry loves a good fancy dress party

True love…

10. You’ll compromise more than you thought you ever would

When you’re single, you play by your rules and your rules only. It’s your way or the high way. You can never imagine having to sit through a rom-com or a robot war film, but you’ll quickly realise that you must give a little, in order to receive a little, in any relationship.

11. Time really does fly when you’re having fun

Everyone knows that couple who’ve been together for 9 years. Now, to the single person, a month of being with the same person seems like forever but honestly, when you’re with someone right, months can pass by in a flash and suddenly, it’s a year.

12. Grooming at an obsessive level quickly takes a backseat

You've become a bit more laid back – no need to cover up that spot quite so much for date night. After all that will just prolong the damned thing.

13. Commitment is easier than you’ve ever imagined

You've never been with someone for longer than two months before and now suddenly it's been a year – and you're not scared! In fact, you're kind of excited…!

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If you’ve been on the 5:2 diet, you should read this

Jul 21, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Experts have warned about how the 5:2 diet may make you live longer, but it could also leave you more susceptible to infection.

The diet, which involves eating next to nothing for two days during the week is said to lower blood pressure, but scientists from the University of Bath have been testing on fruit flies over the last year, and they’ve found that the diet can lead to a 20% increase in infections.

The leader of the study Dr Nick Priest, a lecturer in biology and biochemistry said:

“We know that certain stresses such as starvation or exposure to pathogens can extend life and increase fertility, but we have found that ironically this has a trade-off in terms of immune function.

“Our findings are not all that surprising. We have known for decades that starved mice are more likely to succumb to serious infections.”

“But, there has been a lot more interest in the short term benefits than potential long-term costs.”

“There are clear health benefits to diets such as the 5:2 regime, but we need to bear in mind there are side effects.

“It shows that even the fountain of youth should come with a warning label.”

5 signs that prove you’re in a long term relationship

Relationships

Apr 18, 2014

by Amber Saunders

It’s not the number of months or the loved-up quirks that prove you’re in a long term relationship. No, it’s mostly how you act with each other.

Here are some sure signs that you and your partner, are in it for the long haul.

Complete honesty

You no longer live in fear of what the other thinks. If the outfit doesn’t suit them, or you can’t stand the way they act sometimes. You can tell them straight.

People no longer see you as separate identities

Friends officially see you as a package deal and accept where you go, your partner is sure to follow.

Comfortable silences

You can tell him not to speak to you for an hour and he will get it. More importantly, if you are able to express a message with a single look, it’s a sure sign of strong relationship.

He’s part of your family

He is already considered an official member of your family. He even spends time with them, when you out.

Knows you better than yourself

The little things, like knowing to record your favourite programme when you can’t. But most importantly, how to cheer you up when you’re feeling down.

5 signs he is not over his ex

Relationships

Feb 18, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Your new love interest was in a long-term relationship until recently.

No matter how much he assures you he is over his ex and not in love with her anymore – you have a feeling that is not entirely true.

In time, he may get over her for good and you can have a great relationship with him, but unfortunately, there is the other scenario where you’re a rebound and you don’t want to be in that situation.

These signs show he more than likely isn’t over his ex and you should wait and see what happens before jumping into something serious.

1. Every single story he tells has her name in it one way or another
Every. Single. One.

2. Her name in his phone is his pet name for her
Sounds like “Schnukkims McCuddles” may be coming back for her man eventually.

3. His apartment has still got a significant amount of her photos lying around
Run.

4. They talk on the phone every night
There is a certain adjustment period of course, but if you are dating this man then that is not on.

5. You have to hang out with her.
No.

5 signs you’re in a long term relationship

Relationships

Feb 8, 2014

by Amber Saunders

1. Your friends have a collective name for you.
YOUR friends that is. His friends still tend to just go with calling you the “old doll” or “beour”.

2. You have no problem in slathering Sudocreme ALL over your face before bedtime.
He doesn’t bat an eyelid.

3. He’ll never eat one single fried egg in the bag of Haribo Supermix.
They are yours and yours alone.

4. He never attempts sex when you’re on your period – he saw it coming four days ago.
Well that saves that awkward “oh, no, er, I’m ya know….” conversation.

5. What the hell is Tinder?
Just because we have no use for it doesn’t mean there’s no point in telling us about it!