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Do you always go for clean shaven guys or are beards more your thing?

This may seem like a frivolous question but new research has suggested that beards may play a bigger role in our quest for long term love than many might think.

According to researchers at the University of Queensland, when looking for “the one” us girls are more likely to consider a man with a good dose of facial hair above those who’ve taken a clean shaven approach.

And when looking for a fling – yup, you guessed it – we tend to go for those who boast smoother faces.

After manipulating the facial hair statuses of a group of male faces and showing those images to a set of female participants, researchers discovered that women rated bearded faces as more attractive for long-term relationships, while those with a little stubble were seen as best for more limited romances.

The Mail Online has reported that experts believe beards can enhance a man’s perceived level of masculinity, which in turn suggests to women that bearded men are more fertile and better able to survive.

So next time to catch yourself making a beeline for a bearded man, make sure you’re doing it for the right reasons!

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If you're in a long-term relationship, there are a few coping techniques you've definitely learned by now.

How to answer the "how did you two meet?" question, for example – you both launch into a well-rehearsed spiel that you've repeated so many times you could say it in your sleep.

Here are just a few other things all long-term couples have no doubt learned by now…

1. A cuddle on the couch is a gazillion times more romantic than any swanky restaurant
Date night means a great DVD, a takeaway, a good bottle of wine and some serious snuggling. Getting dressed up when we don't have to? Not a chance.

 

2. Falling asleep in each other's arms is so lovely… for around five minutes
One of you will inevitably get your arm trapped or start to suddenly get boiling hot… it's always the way. 

 

3. The "so when are you two getting married?" question never ceases to be irritating
So much so that you're tempted to make up ridiculous answers. "Oh, tomorrow actually. Didn't we invite you? Soz."

 

4. The world of Tinder and online dating is equal amounts compelling and terrifying
"It wasn't like that in MY day." (i.e. four years ago).

 

5. You two have so many in-jokes that it's basically a secret language
No-one else can even attempt to join in.

 

6. One of you will ALWAYS get more drunk than the other on a night out
You might as well just both apologise in advance.

 

7. You call each other by nicknames so much that using your real names sounds weird
"Siobhán? Why are you calling me that? Are you angry?"

 

8. Whatever happens, it's so important to celebrate the little things
Five years since he added you on Facebook… high five!

 

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Events like birthdays, Valentine’s and Christmas are great excuses to show our other half just how much they mean to us. But for the rest of the year, it’s easy to slack off when it comes to our relationship.

Little touches like a sweet note or a surprise gift don’t take much effort but they go a long way toward keeping that spark alive.

Here are some random occasions that we believe should be celebrated or marked in some way – if anything else it’s an excuse to have some fun together!

1. The anniversary of your first date
Forget the day you two met or became a couple, your first date was where it all really kicked off. Why not re-create the night once a year? It’ll be much more fun without that first-date awkwardness, we promise!

2. A “skipping the gym” night
No matter how much you enjoy that post-workout buzz (if it even exists) sometimes you both just need to take an evening to relax, eat pizza and enjoy each other’s company. Maybe you do this every night, anyway – it’s still worth celebrating!

3. Laundry night
Woo-hoo, dirty clothes! Throw on some epic Eighties power ballads, get the washing and drying done and sit around in those weirdly-fitting trackie bottoms you always wear when nothing else is clean. Who needs glamour, anyway?

4. An “I can’t be bothered to cook” night
When you’re wrecked after work and really can’t face the kitchen, make a date night out of it! Head out for an impromptu dinner, order in, or if your bank balance is low have a bit of craic making weird sandwiches out of whatever’s left in the cupboard. Tayto and banana sambo anyone?

5. The end of your period
It’s over for another month – get to the bedroom! Enough said.

6. Your “moving in together” anniversary
You’ve survived each other for a year (or two, or three), it’s time to celebrate. We reckon this one calls for a bottle of wine and a delish dinner together at the very least.

7. The anniversary of your first takeaway
It’s a big thing ordering in together, you know. It means you’ve let your guard down and are willing to let him see just how much Kung Pao Chicken you deem as “one portion.” What better way to mark this very significant event than with more takeaway?!

8. Your 100th Tuesday together
If you find official “one year” anniversaries a bit cringey, wait a bit longer and celebrate your 100th week together. One hundred is a pretty huge number – we reckon it’s worth making a big deal out of it!

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