14 essential things to look for in a boyfriend

Relationships

Sep 15, 2014

No one is perfect, but there are some things to look out for if you’re looking for a boyfriend. There are small signs that you can look out for that make them a firm candidate for your next significant other. Here is the quintessential boyfriend checklist.

1. They have good manners
They don't have to be a good little Catholic school boy, but manners in general are definitely something to look out for. What it comes down to is respect and having respect for other people no matter who they are. Steer clear of the pretentious douchebags and look for those that actually treat people properly.

2. They have a great personality
Let's face it, you're going to need things to talk about so boring just isn't going to cut it…

3. They make you smile
This one is very simple, but is definitely an important one to have on the list. Sometimes you don’t even have to say anything, and they just make you smile. They might say something funny or they might not, but if being around someone makes you happy then it’s a definite reason to get with them.

4. Being openly generous
If they actually think about others instead of just themselves, then it’s a good reason. They’ll have no problem with helping others and sometimes forget to put themselves first.

5. They’re passionate about something
Even if it’s just a hobby, when they have something that they’re really passionate about then it really gives you a sense of what they’re like. Sure, they might work an office job and get good money, but if they don’t have something that really gets them going then what are they actually living for.

6. A good group of friends
Everyone needs people to support and care for them ,but if their friends couldn’t care less about who they are seeing, then they’re not good friends. If someone talks about how many friends they have then they’re clearly covering things up. It’s better for them to have a few close friendsthan loads of kind of friends that they only see every now and again.

7. Being trustworthy
Even if it’s with the smallest things, being able to fully trust them is a big thing. Obviously no one wants to date someone unfaithful, but if they can show that they can be trusted then they should be considered.

8. Having a plan in life
Things don’t always turn out the way we want them to, in fact, they never play out exactly as you think. You need someone that has some ambition and even if they might not be in the job they want at the moment, they have a vision for their future. You need someone with a level of determination and a belief that will get where they want to be.

9. They make an effort to like your friends
They won’t get along with everyone, but at least if they make an effort your friends will like them. If someone doesn’t try to get to know your friends and just dismisses them maybe you need to reconsider . It’s a good thing if they make an effort and we all know that once you have your friends approval it’s all signals go.

10. They challenge you
You need someone that has a different perspective on life and that has different views than you. If you both see things exactly the same way then you won’t grow and learn together. You will learn to like different things and maybe even something that you once hated.

11. A sense of humour
Seriously, there are some people out there who can’t take a joke and never crack a smile. Humour is necessary when looking for a potential boyfriend, especially if they have the same sense of humour as you. Sometimes things just click and you get each other’s peculiar humour.

12. They’re able to cook
Whether it’s them making breakfast for you when you’re hungover or being able to make you a romantic dinner. Being able to cook is an incredibly important asset for someone to have if you’re looking for a boyfriend. It’s more common for girls to be able to cook so a guy that can properly cook is a rare breed.

12. They know how to scrub up
It’s one thing to judge someone on the day to day, but if you see them when they scrub up you will see a lot more of what they’re about. Then later down the line you won’t have to worry what they will look like when you’re introducing them to your friends and family. It may seem like a small thing, but being presentable is an important factor.

13. They are content by themselves
If someone can get enjoyment out of just being by themselves it means that they won’t be needy. The last thing you need is a clinger that hangs on your word and can only be happy when they’re with you. It’s not a healthy way to live if you’re always dependent on someone else to make youhappy. Find someone that is content by themselves, but is happy when you’re together.

14. They give you their full attention
It’s seems nowadays we can never just talk to someone, we have to be on our phone at the same time as well. If they give you their full undivided attention, then you should really consider them. If they actually make an effort to listen to you without doing anything else, then you know you can be honest with them and you will make the effort to have conversations with them.

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13 signs your man is still very immature

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Sep 12, 2014

by Amber Saunders

There isn’t a lot that changes when a guy grows up, they might look different or sound different, but they’re still really a kid inside. Some guys are better at hiding it around you than others, but one thing is for certain – when they’re with their friends, they will always act immature. Here are the signs that your boyfriend is still immature.

1. They’re incredibly shallow
They’re all about looks, whether it’s being obsessed with how they look or only caring about how others look. Being attracted to someone is a small part of a relationship, if all they care about is looks , then they’re definitely immature.

2. They’re very materialistic
It is good to have something to work toward in life, but if all they are working for is a new iPhone 6 or a new part for their car instead of spending it on their girlfriend, it shows immaturity. There is nothing wrong with treating yourself, but if all your money goes to other things, then it shows where their priorities lie.

3. They still think toilet humour is hilarious
We all like a little bit of crude humour every now and again, but if he has the sense of humour of a 10 year old then it’s not a good sign. When you get to a certain age, you look back on the things that you used to think were funny and see how childish they were. If he is immature he still finds the same things funny.

4. It’s never their fault
They won’t take the blame for anything or admit when they’re wrong. It’s a real sign of immaturity if they can’t own up to something, it’s one thing to be stubborn once a while but sometimes you just need to accept when you’re wrong. Relationships aren’t all fun and games and sometimes you just need to concede defeat.

5. The only dish they know how to make is beans on toast
They are not well versed in the culinary arts and the closest they come is beans on toast. They would never be able to make a romantic dinner for you, instead they would order Chinese food and maybe let you have some of their chips.

6. Their favourite movie is anything by Michael Bay
Kids like big explosions and loud noises in movies, but if that is still all they look for in a movie then they’re clearly immature. When you get older your tastes change and you watch movies with a bit more substance. For some they still get excited by seeing the same explosions over and over again.

7. Their career is going nowhere
It’s a scary world out there, but after a while you have to learn to come to grips with it. There is no point in sitting around waiting for things just to happen, if they’ve no job and no direction, they’re not accepting responsibility for their life.

8. They never make any plans
Staying in is always the best option for them and they never plan to go out to dinner or see a movie. Their equivalent is getting a take away and watching Netflix. It’s basically the same idea to them,expect there is a huge difference between going out and staying in.

9. They always say they’re too broke
If they are strapped for cash, then sometimes there is no problem with asking for a lend of money. If they actually have money but still ask you for some then they are clearly taking advantage of you. If they can never pay for things or are always stingy with money, then they are clearly to immature for a relationship.

10. He is more emotionally unstable
Guys have feelings too, but they don’t wear them on their sleeve for all to see. Guys should have their emotions intact and only open up during those intimate moments. If they burst in tears at pretty much anything they still have the emotional stability of a toddler.

11. They think that a T-shirt and sweatpants is always suitable attire
So you decide to go out somewhere for a change, but they just wear the clothes that they just wore to the gym. It wouldn’t hurt if they made a bit of an effort every now and again. Clearly they’re too immature if they think that wearing the same clothes for every occasion is acceptable.

12. Their favorite music is by Scooter
They listen to music that was popular about 5 or 6 years ago and don’t even realise it. They have ambitions of becoming a DJ, but they don’t know the first thing about music. They always blare their music in the house and think that everyone needs to hear what they’re listening to.

13. They have no idea how to comfort you
There are some guys that don’t have a clue what to do when their girlfriend is emotional. It doesn’t take that much, all you need is a shoulder to cry on or someone to talk to. They don’t need someone to tell them to get a grip.

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Have this controversial new couple just confirmed their romance?!

Celebrity

Sep 11, 2014

by Amber Saunders

It sounds as if all of those rumours about Jennifer Lawrence and Chris Martin may be far from just rumours after all!

The new hot couple in Hollywood were seen enjoying a romantic date at Beverly Hills restaurant, La Dolce Vita.

A source for People says that the two looked very much the loved-up couple: “They were super cute together. They were laughing a lot and Jennifer was acting all goofy!”

It’s nice to hear that Chris is able to lift Jennifer’s spirits following the ordeal she has been through in recent weeks.

The news comes following the breakdown of Chris’ marriage to Gwyneth Paltrow back in June and Jennifer’s split from actor Nicholas Hoult during the summer.

Meanwhile, Nicholas has been seen spending lots of time with Kristin Stewart as they film a movie in Japan together.

We're not sure we can get used to all of these unusual celebrity pairings!

Shock split for everyone’s favourite TV couple

Celebrity

Sep 11, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Joey Essex and Sam Faiers have reportedly split up…again!

The TOWIE couple broke off their engagement last June but decided to give their love another go back in March of this year – but it seems it sadly didn’t work.

Following a series of small arguments while on holiday in Marbella, the couple have called an end to their relationship once again.

A source for The Sun told how Joey even flew home early during the disaster break: “The atmosphere between them wasn’t healthy and Joey simply had enough. He just had to get away.”

We really liked these two together – hopefully they can work it out.

Caroline reveals the shocking way her engagement came to an end

Celebrity

Sep 11, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Caroline Wozniacki has revealed the shocking way she learnt that her engagement to Rory McIlroy was over.

The tennis star opened up about the high-profile break-up, saying it was done over a ten-minute PHONE CALL.

Nice one, Rory!

Caroline spoke about the awful time to a US television show In Depth with Graham Bensinger, saying: “I was shocked, I thought at least I would get a face-to-face or something but there was nothing. It was just a phone call and then I did not hear from him again.”

She continued on to say that it was made all the more difficult as Rory made the entire ordeal very public from the beginning: “It was very hard because he made it very public from the start. He put out a press release and all of that so it just got put in my face.”

Caroline also said that at first she believed the phone call was a joke.

Thankfully, she has now moved on and says she is on the lookout for someone new: “I would like a taller guy so I can wear high heels. I’m pretty strict with my box ticking. I look for someone who is honest, fun to be around and doesn’t take himself too seriously.”

It’s good that Caroline got to tell her side of the story, just as Rory did – we just hope he’s not sensitive about all of those height jokes!

8 essentials for better sex

Relationships

Sep 10, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Whether you’re looking to spice up your relationship or just make things a bit more interesting, here are the sex essentials! (After another person, obviously).

1. The Karma Sutra

Get that old time book out and get ready to work it.

2. Sexy Soundtrack

A soundtrack to your sexy night is essential. Otherwise, you may get the giggle when that diarrhoea ad comes on TV.

3. Porn

Not for everyone, but if you’re not into visualisation, why not try reading a sexy novel?

4. Lube

It’s slippery and fun, what’s not to love?!

5. Lingerie

It’s not easy being a girl – until it comes to sex, that is – and all we have to do is throw on some sexy lingerie to capture your attention. Lace? Great. Red? Fantastic. Suspenders? Oh stop…

6. Candles/A Dim Lamp

In essentially every single sex scene to ever make it onto film, there are no bright, unflattering lights under which your cellulite will be shining bright or your face glowing puce. No, instead you have candles, dim lights and a red orange glow.Take a little inspiration and dim your lights tonight, because there’s nothing sexy about observing your partners skin condition under the glow of what could also be mistaken for a surgery lamp.

7. Sex Toys

Never fear, we’re not in any shape or form suggesting that you’re bad at sex. We’d never say such a thing, in fact. However, take some good sex, add a vibrator or some other form of battery operated plaything to the mix and you have yourself a recipe for success. It’s going to do nothing but benefit you both, keep you both excited, plus add some new sensations and areas of interest into the mix. Winning. If you don’t know where to look for and don’t want to go to a local shop then check Eden Fantasys. They have all kinds of sex toy and essentials you need to make your sex life better. Don’t forget to use Eden Fantasys coupon codes to save some money on your purchase. Check it out and thank me later.

8. Contraception

Sorry to end this whole thing on a massive downer, but safe sex is better sex. Nobody wants to come away from sex with anything other than a smile on their face. Unless you’re in a loving committed relationship and you’re trying for a baby, then by all means, get to it!

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Gavin addresses his split from wife Gwen Stefani

Celebrity

Sep 10, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Gavin Rossdale has addressed the hurt a story ran by OK! magazine caused to him and his wife, Gwen Stefani.

The musician told Howard Stern how he was on holiday with his family in Sardinia when someone emailed him the story, which ran on the front cover and described it as “demoralising” saying: “It’s so mean-spirited.”

Gavin also said that having to tell Gwen about the story was painful and humiliating, saying: “there she is looking so beautiful, so happy.”

So it looks like these two are going nowhere anytime soon and we are so happy to hear it!

Gavin and Gwen were married in 2002 and have three sons together, Kingston, Zuma and Apollo while Gavin is also a dad to British model, Daisy Lowe.

Actor slams his girlfriend’s haters in epic rant

Celebrity

Sep 9, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Ian Somerhalder has taken some online comments about his girlfriend, Nikki Reed very seriously indeed.

After some of his fans commented on a photo on his Instagram account saying they hated his current girl, he hit back – hard: “You HATE NIKKI REED? Really? Do you know her? Hmmmm, I’m not sure that you do. Look at her Instagram feed or Twitter and all you will see is a compassionate and beautiful human being. Please put your negative energy elsewhere. You don’t even know the person you’re talking about.”

The actor didn’t stop there and continued his display of loyalty for Nikki (swoon!): “Do you care about me? Ask yourself that question. What’s the answer? Is it yes? If it is – then please be happy for me. Stop this nonsense – you’re spreading horrible energy into the world. Do some research of the person you say sucks or you HATE. You’ll find she’s a magical person doing great things in the world."

But that wasn’t it…

“I’m sickened and saddened by the the fans’ response to all this. My fans have stood up to people like you and tried to empower you with some compassion. If we all thought a little or [learned] a little about people before we spoke about them, the world wouldn’t be so upside down and in the worst place in history. If you hate Nikki you must hate me… That’s sad. Have an amazing day!”

Um, wow. She’s an even luckier lady than we previously thought! What a sweetheart.

Worried girlfriend has genius plan to keep girls away on lad’s holiday

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Sep 9, 2014

by Amber Saunders

An obviously worried girlfriend has come up with a way of getting all of the girls in Ibiza to back off her man while he is on a lad’s holiday – a hilarious t-shirt with a warning on it!

Abbie Bartlett created the t-shirt for boyfriend Leon Connelly which sees the words: “I love my girlfriend and I hate all the girls in Ibiza so please stay away from me” brandished across his chest.

On top of this, Abbie also included four photos of her and Leon on the t-shirt, looking very loved up and sure to scare away any potential interested ladies on the party island…!

The only question remaining is…will it work?

Thankfully, Abbie isn’t the obsessive girlfriend she pretends to be and says: “When I took the T shirt to the printing shop they must have thought I was a psycho! But Leon saw the funny side because it’s really just a joke – he and I have a similar sense of humour.”

Hollywood actress reunites with famous ex-boyfriend?!

Celebrity

Sep 9, 2014

by Amber Saunders

It has been reported that Michelle Williams and Jason Segel are seeing each other again!

The cute couple ended their one year relationship in February of last year as Michelle felt Jason wasn’t ready to commit.

However, it looks as if this may all have changed as the pair were spotted at a restaurant in Rome, Italy recently.

Jason was also said to be very close to Michelle and Heath Ledger’s daughter, with many photos of them out and about together.

Hmm, we really loved these two together, we hope they reunite!

13 traits of the perfect man

Relationships

Sep 5, 2014

by Amber Saunders

It's hard to find the perfect gentleman, but we are positive he's out there. He just needs to do all of these things to sweep us off our feet:

1. Comment On Our Appearance (Positive Only, Obviously)

Even after two or three years, this will still go a long way.

2. Celebrate The Little Things

We don't want men to remember that first time we held hands or anything, but a sweet gesture to remind us that they remember little things would be nice.

3. Do Not Point Out Our Flaws

You don't think we realise our brows haven't been done for weeks?! We're poor!

4. Don’t Talk About Your Exes (Especially If They Were Really Hot)

We probably know everything there is to know already, on account of the fact that we’ve stalked her numerous times on Facebook. Never, ever underestimate a woman’s stalking skills. She probably knows more about her than you do.

5. If She’s Acting Crazy, Buy Her Chocolate Stat

It's our currency.

6. Don’t Forget To Randomly Text Us From Time To Time

It’s all too easy to take your other half for granted when you’ve been together for a long period of time, so touching base every now and then is imperative. Just a funny little text will do the trick and get you back on her mind in no time.

7. Don’t Ever Comment On Our Hot Friends

Because that is a very good way to lose a part of your special anatomy.

8. Do Not Attempt To Put An Ugly Picture Of Her On Facebook

We get that men do this to other men and even women to other women, but what the hell would posses you to do it to your girlfriend? You are not Ashton and she is not Demi and it’s not funny or cute. Not acceptable. Ever.

9. Never Disrespect Our Parents

They made us, therefore you should automatically be grateful to them. Make an effort and inquire about them from time to time, that’s all it takes.

10. Leave Us To Shop Alone

There’s nothing more annoying to women than having an annoying man following us around grumbling about being bored, when all we want to do is buy three dress for €40 and rejoice. Do us both a favour and go wait in the pub.

11. Surprise Her Every Now And Then

There’s a certain element of getting into a routine when you’re in a long term relationship, so instead of spending another weekend in the pub together, surprise her with a little treat, a date night, a weekend away, a new sex move or whatever else it takes to put you in the good books. Whatever it is that you do will show that you’ve put thought and care into it and that’s a massive plus in our eyes. Honest.

12. Our Space Is Not Messy, It’s Organised Chaos

For some reason most women , are slightly messy. Some of us might be totally neat, tidy and into our appearance on the outside, but step into our rooms and you’ll be greeted with a wall of crap. Don’t mouth off about it, it’s our mess and we’re happy with it. Unless you live with us, in which case, it’s only changing if you’re happy to clean it up for us.

13. Support Us, No Matter What

That’s what you’re there for, after all. If she’s feeling down, cheer her up. If she’s quiet, talk to her. If she’s having family problems, be there for her and if you’re the reason she’s upset, then change your bad habits before she changes her boyfriend. Above all, be her shoulder to cry on and her solid support system. Remind her why she loves you and you’re on the right track.

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8 of the stupidest things a guy can ever say to a girl

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Sep 5, 2014

by Amber Saunders

There are some things us girls just do NOT want to hear from boys. Here they are:

1. “You’re wearing too much make up”
We KNOW you prefer us without make-up which means we aren't doing it for you, we're doing it for ourselves (ok, other girls).