The 5 guys we inevitably fall in love with

Relationships

May 8, 2014

There is always at least one of these guys that we can’t help but fall in love with.

1. The one who won’t love you back
No matter what you try this will end in heartbreak. When you finally break up, people will tell you everything will be OK and that it couldn’t have been that serious because they spotted your former partner out last weekend and they never seemed happier.

2. The one you follow
Career, college, another country. Whichever it is at some stage you are going to follow someone somewhere or someone will follow you. It shows that no relationship is completely even and that sacrifices have to be made.

3. The one you stop loving for no reason.
It happens. You may not be able to put your finger on it for a long, long time but love just one day packed up and jumped ship. Explaining this one is probably the most heart breaking for the other person involved because they will want an explanation and even the over used “it’s not you, it’s me,” isn’t enough.

4. The one who has no self love
It’s like falling in love with a stone. It’s different to the first point of someone who won’t love you back though in that they just don’t feel anything for you. The one with no self love doesn’t feel anything for anyone shouldn’t be in a relationship in the first place. Although it could be a case that you’ve fallen in love with them from a distance and their whole moodiness and “goth like” actions were what sparked your interest in the first place. Just stay away…at least until you see them smile!

5. The person who proves you wrong
You said you’d never fall in love again. You’re too busy or you’re just out of a long term relationship, then BOOM. This person comes along to change you perception of what love is. They have the positive side to all the negatives in this article. They love themselves, and not in a vain way. They make you feel like a better person and see all the good in you. Even better the see all your flaws and they understand every one of them.

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14 signs your ex is still not over you

Relationships

May 7, 2014

by Amber Saunders

During a break up and after it, a lot of our focus tends to be on us.

There are reasons we are trying to get away from our other half and in doing so we can’t feel sorry for them. Or maybe its the other way around, maybe we are the ones who were left gutted when they dropped the bomb on us.

Anyway, there is a time when you WILL get over it, but have they? Here are the signs THEY are not over YOU.

1. They wear mostly clothes associated with your time together

2. They drop you a text every now and again asking about that place you went once…

3. They begin to frequent the places you both used to go more regularly.

4. They get too drunk when you bump into them on a night out and either go a) all soppy and declare their love or b) full on psycho-ex stalker and get kicked out of the club.

5. They happen to bump into you in an “oh I was just passing” way in a part of town they have no business being in other than the fact that they know you work there.

6. They have a new partner…who looks exactly like you.

7. They have changed sexuality and their new opposite sex of you partner…looks exactly like you.

8. They still have a photo of the two of you as their screen saver on their phone.

9. Tears. There are always tears when you meet them.

10. They text you to ask what was your special song was….you didn’t have one…and they know that.

11. Your friends tell you they bumped into them in town, and all they asked about was you….

12. They are full on stalking you.

13. They have become a lot more friendly with your family than you would like…even though they only met them once.

14. The “like” everything you put up on Facebook, including photos you posted three years ago, and not even accidentally. They full on want you to know they are cyber stalking you.

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The buzzwords to use and avoid to find love online

Relationships

May 1, 2014

by Amber Saunders

There is nothing worse than writer’s block when filling out your online dating profile! While you could natter away about yourself for hours on a night out, you find yourself lost for words when sweating over that ‘write here’ white box.

According to a study carried out by a leading online dating site, which analysed the word trends among those who had found love, these are the words you should use:

1. Love

2. Time

3. Life

4. Friend

5. Music

Also, among women, those who found relationships online also used the word ‘relationship’ 16% percent more often than those who were still single.

According to the survey, those who are still looking for love are more likely to use words that describe shorter-term activities. For women in particularly, those words are ‘travel’, ‘dinner’, and ‘shop’.

Other words and phrases to avoid are ‘soul mate’ ‘connection’ and ‘financially secure’.

It seems guys scare pretty easily!

First he cheats on her, now this! Poor Kelly Brook

Celebrity

Apr 25, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Not only did bad boy Danny Cipriani cheat on Kelly Brook, but now he’s going on nights out with the lads in her bar!

Danny made the cheeky move when he turned up at Steam & Rye for JLS star, JB’s, stag do last night.

Kelly hasn’t spoken to Danny since she found texts from another woman on his phone and kicked him out of her London home.

The incident happened shortly after Kelly nursed Danny back to health when he was hit by a bus.

Considering all the hurt he caused her, you would think he’d have the decency not to rub his lad’s night out in her face.

Thankfully, Kelly seems happy in her new relationship with fiancé, David McIntosh.

Get your relationship advice from MIC’s Lucy Watson

Relationships

Apr 15, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Having dated two of Made in Chelsea’s most notorious bachelors, it’s no surprise that Lucy Watson has learned a thing or two.

Following her relationships with Jaime Laing and Spencer Matthews, it seems Lucy is an expert in dating.

The reality star is set to release her very own relationship advice book called The Dating Game.

Lucy described the ways in which she regrets her past relationships and hopes to help girls avoid the same fate: “I have stayed in horrendous relationships. I’ve endured years of crying, losing weight, low confidence and ruined myself. I wish I had been stronger.”

Hmm, we wonder if she is alluding to a certain Spencer Matthews!

It’s official – you love yourself!

Relationships

Apr 11, 2014

by Amber Saunders

A new study has revealed that we all look for similar traits in a partner that we possess ourselves.

The study was carried out by a data site called FiftyThirtyEight.

The site examined 1 million eHarmony users and looked at what precisely they look for in a partner.

eHarmony is a dating site that allows you to really detail who you are and what your are looking for in a partner in order to make the right match.

With regards to intelligence, interests, education and physical traits, it seems we all want someone who is similar to ourselves.

However it also found that people also look for someone who can do certain talents they themselves do not posses and would like to learn.

So, basically we would love to date an even better version of ourselves! Sounds perfect.

11 fictional men every woman dreams about

Relationships

Apr 10, 2014

by Amber Saunders

1. Noah from The Notebook

With his combination of charm, sincerity and adventurous spirit, Noah has all of the ingredients to be the perfect boyfriend. He knows what he wants, and he’ll do whatever it takes to get it, even if that means dangling off a ferris wheel. Let’s face it: Ryan Gosling in any role is our dream boyfriend.

Memorable quote: “I want all of you, forever. You and me, every day.”

2. Nick from New Girl

From the moment that Jess moved in with the guys, we were already rooting for her and Nick to get together. Although he can be a little grumpy and pessimistic at times, he’s a loyal friend, a great listener and the perfect partner in crime. Who didn’t swoon during that amazing first-kiss scene?

Memorable quote: “I think you’re the kind of girl a guy would come back for.”

3. Jack from Titanic

Jack Dawson is the ultimate romantic. Come on, the guy froze to death to save the life of the girl he loved, even when it was quite clear he could have fit on that piece of wood. We love his boyish charm, spontaneity and smile that could melt any girl’s heart. Plus, he really knows how to wear a tux.

Memorable quote: “You jump, I jump, remember?”

4. Dr McDreamy from Greys Anatomy

Oh swoon swoonage. Mc Dreamy, the ultimate gentleman, he’s kind and gentle and… he’s a brain surgeon. Meridith is annoying as fuck and we don’t know how she got him but wow… a head trauma would almost be worth it for this guy.

Memorable quote: ”You’ll never love yourself half as much as I love you.”

5. Pacey Witter from Dawson’s Creek

Pacey Witter was the heart throb of many a girl born in the late 80′s/early 90′s who watched Dawson’s Creek religiously. The way he looked and treated Joey Potter was unparalleled, he was the bench mark that many a boy was measured against and few measured up. So sweet, so unrealistic.

Memorable quote: ”You and I were one of the few things, perhaps the only thing, that ever made perfect sense to me.”

6. Tom from (500) Days of Summer

Tom is a hopeless romantic and one of the few guys left who still believes in fate and true love. You would never have to worry about “defining the relationship” with him – if Tom is with you, you can rest easy knowing he’s in it for the long haul. Plus, we love that he has good taste in music and a penchant for running through IKEA stores.

Memorable quote: “I love how she makes me feel. Like anything’s possible… or like life is worth it.”

7. Graham from The Holiday

The heartbreaking story of poor widowed Graham who falls hopelessly in love with Cameron Diaz in ‘The Holiday’. The scene when he’s doing Mr Napkin head for his daughters is really what gets us in this one. Dilf.

Memorable quote: ”I finally know what I want and that, in itself, is a miracle. And what I want is YOU.”

8. Chuck from Gossip Girl

With money, class and a smoldering gaze, Chuck Bass is the epitome of tall, dark and handsome. Although he can be kind of a prick when his cockiness gets the best of him, we can’t help but be drawn to his bad-boy charm. If more college guys dressed as well as Chuck does, the world would be a more beautiful place.

Memorable quote: “I’m sorry I gave up on us when you never did.”

9. Josh from Clueless

The whole ex-stepbrother thing aside, Josh is the boyfriend we all wish we had. We fell in love with him when he went out and danced with Tai like no one was watching, and we fell even harder when he finally told Cher how he felt. He’s smart, adorable and charmingly witty, and he’s not afraid to call you out when you’re being a little ridiculous.

Memorable quote: “You know you’re gorgeous, alright.”

10. Johnny Castle from Dirty Dancing

Pretty much the coolest guy we’ve ever seen, Johnny from Dirty Dancing was the shit. We all dreamed of meeting an older, sexy ride that taught us everything we needed to know about life and sex in one Summer. Dem hip moments though…

Memorable quote: “Nobody puts baby in the corner”

11. Jacob Palmer from Crazy Stupid Love

Okay, so Ryan Gosling is in twice, but come on – they are two very different characters and Dammit, it’s Ryan Gosling. He should probably be in it another 4 times. Jacob is confident, intelligent and ripped as fuck. He starts out in this movie as being a cocky shit who thinks he can have anyone he wants, that’s until he meets Hannah Banana who turns out to be a ‘game changer’.

Memorable quote: ”The war between the sexes is over. We won the second women started doing pole dancing for exercise.”

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TV and movies’ most romantic moments ever

Relationships

Apr 9, 2014

by Amber Saunders

These romantic moments on TV and in movies still give us butterflies – so cute!

Who said true love doesn’t exist?

1. Up‘s Carl and Ellie’s montage

2. The Office – Tim and Dawn’s first kiss

3. The Notebook – “Why didn’t you write me?” scene

4. Grey’s Anatomy – Derek’s elevator proposal

5. 10 Things I Hate About You – Patrick’s song

5 unusual dates for the long-term couple

Relationships

Apr 9, 2014

by Amber Saunders

You’ve been to a billion restaurants, seen every movie and are sick of staying in.

Here are some definitely not boring date ideas that you and your partner will have loads of fun with!

1. Skype date
Just because you’re not together in person doesn’t mean you can’t have a date! Watch a movie together in the background or even cook dinner together (whether it’s the same dish is up to you!).

2. Adventure
Doing something crazy together will make for some really happy memories. Go rock climbing, bungee jumping or even just a good long hike for a fun-filled day.

3. Cookery class
Not only will you learn something but he’ll have no excuse not to be on dinner duty anymore! Who said he can’t cook?

4. Blind gig
Pick out a totally random band you’ve never heard of and go see them. You’ll have a great night and might discover your new favourite band!

5. Late night playground date
Kids don’t need the swings at night! Have loads of fun in a playground and even bring some snacks for an impromptu picnic.

Emma Thompson says the idea of ‘happily ever after’ is “bonkers”

Relationships

Apr 8, 2014

by Amber Saunders

If your looking for belief in true love, we wouldn’t suggest you go ask Emma Thompson for advice!

The actress has admitted that she thinks “the notion of ‘happily ever after’ is bonkers”.

Speaking to Radio Times, she goes on to say that “people aren’t honest because of the desire to maintain the romantic ideal.”

It would seem that Emma has had her fair share of heartbreak and that this has shaped the way she feels today, “My grandmother used to say your heart is no good until it’s been broken 10 times. I know what she means: the cicatrices shape the way in which you navigate all your relationships.”

Emma was married to Kenneth Branagh from 1989-1995 and is currently married to Greg Wise since 2003.

5 celebrity couples you never knew dated

Relationships

Apr 8, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Who knew these celebs dated? We really like the idea of some of them, others, not so much.

1. Ryan Reynolds and Alanis Morissette
Long before Scarlett and Blake, Ryan went out with Alanis from 2002-2007 and the two were actually engaged.

2. Vanessa Hudgens and Josh Hutcherson
The Hunger Games star and Vanessa gave it a go for a while and Josh has said that Vanessa “broke my heart”, aww! Poor Peta.

3. Macaulay Culkin and Mila Kunis
Before Jackie and Kelso finally got it together, this unlikely couple dated for a lengthy 11 years from 2002-2011.

4. Sandra Bullock and Ryan Gosling
Sandra and Ryan dated from 2002-2003. We really like these two together!

5. Lisa Kudrow and Conan O’Brien
This couple remained good friends (sorry) after their romance fizzled out.

Are you committing these dating sins?

Relationships

Apr 7, 2014

by Amber Saunders

If any of the below ring true to your current dating style, you may want to pull back a bit.

Remember, dating is not the same as being exclusive, therefore the same rules do not apply.

1. Being too clingy
Do you need to know where he is 24/7? Ask him to hang out every single day even though he doesn’t seem to keen? Take a few days and let him remember what he’s missing!

2. Becoming too available
Don’t cater for his every whim – he can look after himself. He’ll have more respect for you if you let him know you aren’t available for him all of the time.

3. Jealousy
If you allow your jealousy to overcome the beginning of a potential relationship then there may be trouble ahead. Your new beau won’t appreciate snooping.

4. Acting like their girlfriend
If you want to be his girlfriend, then ask him. Otherwise, don’t ask why he hasn’t brought you to meet his mom yet!