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once a cheater always a cheater

There's no question that having an unfaithful past can truly damage a person's reputation when it comes to future romantic endeavours.

A history of infidelity can lead to trust issues in relationships as the phrase 'once a cheater, always a cheater' echoes through the mind of your new partner.

And while that may not always be the case, some scientific research has suggested there could actually be some truth behind the old saying.

A study, published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behaviour, saw researchers follow 484 participants in heterosexual relationships.

As part of the study, participants were asked to report their own "extra-dyadic sexual involvement" (sexual relations with someone other than their partner), and whether or not they had been suspicious of their partner's infidelity in each relationship they had been in.

Researchers found that people who had cheated on their partners in their first relationship were three times more likely to cheat in their next, compared to those who had remained faithful.

What's more, those who knew they had been cheated on were 50 per cent more likely to have experience infidelity in their next relationship.

So, while the same can't be said for every individual, it seems the 'cheater' reputation might stick around for a reason.

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'Once a cheater, always a cheater' may be little more than a line from Friends to you, but it turns out this is actually quite accurate. 

The sad fact of it is as you grow up you realise that a lot of people cheat and get cheated on in relationships. 

If you have cheated or have been cheated on, it's probably worth noting this statistic. Once someone cheats, they are 3.5 times more likely to do it again. 

These figures are the result of research student Kayle Knopp from the University of Denver. She examined the relationships of 484 unmarried people who were ranging from 18-34 years old.

Kayle presented her findings at the annual American Psychological Convention in Washington and explained that not only are those who cheat more likely to cheat again, but people who have been cheated on, are more likely to a victim of adultery again. 

She advises that relationship professionals need to better coach people to learn from negative behaviour and move on from it so it doesn't effect future relationships. 

And no, 'We were on a break' does not excuse your actions! 

 

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