11 signs you need to cool it with your boyfriend

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May 20, 2014

So, you’re totally in love and all that but if most of these seem familiar, you could also be obsessed with your other half. Take some time to think about why they are so lucky to have you, and not the other way around!

1. You text him all the time
He’s just left your house but anything could have happened between here and his house. You need to know.

2. You check to see how longs it’s been since you text him and he didn’t text back
He was texting back in 3 minutes and now he just stopped?? it’s been 35 minutes… “Who is she?!”

3. You stalk his Facebook
You regularly check his Facebook, if he puts up a status, you wanna know what girls liked it.. And how dare that girl like his photo about getting top marks in his exams! #whoisshe #newpersontostalk

4. You automatically hate any girl he’s previously dated, texted, kissed, talked to….
So they dated when he was 16, of course you’re going to hate her! And that super hot girl he once kissed at a disco, total bitch, she’s so fake, all make-up! I mean… right?”

5.You keep an eye on their friends
You know your man’s with them and they be like “any house parties?” I’ll give you house party!!

6. You constantly check their snapchat best friends
#relationshipkiller, you’re first..mickybob99 is second and sorry sarah who????

7. You have gained an acquired set of skills from watching criminal minds
Detective? Who needs a detective when you’ve got a friend, who knows a friend, who knows that bitch texting your man..

8. You know where they are all the time
“Oh hey I just said I’d face time you to see what you’re up to” I don’t recognise that white wall in the background!! Where are you!!

9. You have their password to EVERYTHING
Their phone password, Facebook password, Instagram password, Twitter password, even their e-mail password.

10.You smother him
You want to be with him ALL the time. You want to do everything he does, you don’t want miss out on anything. Be your own person, give him space, you will appreciate each other more the less you’re together.

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Is he fantasising about someone else during sex?

Relationships

May 19, 2014

by Amber Saunders

A new study says that a staggering 57 per cent of men and women admit to fantasising about someone other than their partner when they’re having sex with them.

WHAT?!

Apparently, us ladies are the biggest culprits with 45 per cent admitting to indulging in their fantasy man while getting passionate with their other half.

Who’s yours?

According to the study, a third of all couples (35 per cent) say the most common time they do this is just after they’ve had an argument with their significant other.

But apparently, all this mind-wandering is actually perfectly healthy for your relationship.

Psychologist Dr Pam Spurr said, “Fantasising provides an escape route which helps climax.”

“The fact that women do this more often could be that they feel more shy or inhibited to ask their partner to try a different technique – at least with fantasies, they give women what they need to reach a mind blowing climax without having to ask!”

9 super awkward things that happen on dates

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May 16, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Dating can be a very awkward experience, especially in the early stages when you know nothing about each other and try to present the best possible portrait of yourself. You try and hide your embarrassing secrets and are both trying to figure out if you really like one another enough to pursue the relationship any further. Maybe some of these awkward moments ring a bell?

1. The first time you go to hold their hand.
This can be a difficult moment to judge. When is the “appropriate time” to hold their hand. You’re wondering if they’re thinking the same thing but struggle to get a good read of the situation.

2. Getting food in your teeth
Getting home from your date, you catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror and notice an enormous piece of spinach hanging between your two front teeth! How long has it been there? Did they notice? WHY didn’t they say anything?!

3. How to pay the bill?
Is he going to pay the bill or maybe you should offer? Or maybe you should go halves? Oh, we just don’t know.

4. Trying to hide that you’re seeing a couple of people at once
What if they think you’re exclusive?

5. Ordering the chicken wings
There is officially no way to do this gracefully.

6. When it’s time to have “the talk!”
Oh no, you’re so not ready for this!

7. You have to use the bathroom.
It’s inevitable.

8. Seeing each other naked
Seeing each other in the nip for the first time can be awkward, especially if one, or both of you, are self-conscious about parts of their bodies. Just know that if one of you is self-conscious, then the other is probably as well.

1. Do you go for the hug or the kiss?
The age-old dilemma of how to say goodbye to your date – do you go for the ass-out friendly hug, a cute peck on the cheek or go ultra-attacking and lean in for the kiss on the lips? Pay attention to the signals that the other is giving off because they will be thinking about the same problem as you are. Don’t over-analyse it. Find the middle ground on your first date and then take it from there next time around. Save yourself the embarrassment!

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You will NEVER guess who Prince Harry has been partying with

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May 9, 2014

by Amber Saunders

It looks like Prince Harry hasn’t wasted too much time pining for his ex, Cressida Bonas, since their split last week.

The young prince was spotted chatting to his old friend, singer, Joss Stone (remember her?), at a charity event on Wednesday night.

A source has said: “He and Joss looked like they were having a right old time … they sat together for dinner.”

Harry and Joss were then said to have danced following Joss’ performance on stage.

The break-up between Harry and Cressida is now said to have been mutual.

The 5 guys we inevitably fall in love with

Relationships

May 8, 2014

by Amber Saunders

There is always at least one of these guys that we can’t help but fall in love with.

1. The one who won’t love you back
No matter what you try this will end in heartbreak. When you finally break up, people will tell you everything will be OK and that it couldn’t have been that serious because they spotted your former partner out last weekend and they never seemed happier.

2. The one you follow
Career, college, another country. Whichever it is at some stage you are going to follow someone somewhere or someone will follow you. It shows that no relationship is completely even and that sacrifices have to be made.

3. The one you stop loving for no reason.
It happens. You may not be able to put your finger on it for a long, long time but love just one day packed up and jumped ship. Explaining this one is probably the most heart breaking for the other person involved because they will want an explanation and even the over used “it’s not you, it’s me,” isn’t enough.

4. The one who has no self love
It’s like falling in love with a stone. It’s different to the first point of someone who won’t love you back though in that they just don’t feel anything for you. The one with no self love doesn’t feel anything for anyone shouldn’t be in a relationship in the first place. Although it could be a case that you’ve fallen in love with them from a distance and their whole moodiness and “goth like” actions were what sparked your interest in the first place. Just stay away…at least until you see them smile!

5. The person who proves you wrong
You said you’d never fall in love again. You’re too busy or you’re just out of a long term relationship, then BOOM. This person comes along to change you perception of what love is. They have the positive side to all the negatives in this article. They love themselves, and not in a vain way. They make you feel like a better person and see all the good in you. Even better the see all your flaws and they understand every one of them.

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Which famous blonde made a strong statement on Instagram?

Celebrity

May 8, 2014

by Amber Saunders

18-year-old Ireland Baldwin posted the above snap to her Instagram account yesterday with the caption: “happy cinco de mayo xx.”

She’s pictured kissing rapper Angel Haze who has appeared in a number of pictures with the model – although none so intimate as this.

Ireland recently became single after breaking up with boyfriend Slator Trout.

We’re not sure if she’s just looking forattention or if she’s actually trying to tell us something, but either way we’re glad to see she’s mending that broken heart with fun.

Has this celebrity couple really broken up?

Celebrity

May 8, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Despite previous reports that Jake Gyllenhaal and Alyssa Miller had ended their six-month relationship, we definitely have our doubts after seeing this snap.

The two were spotted walking the model’s ridiculously cute pup in New York this week and looked very cosy together.

Following earlier rumours of a break-up, a source said: “Things were really good between Jake and Alyssa right up until he had to leave for L.A. to go shoot a movie [Nightcrawler] in the fall, then the distance just really got to them.”

Well there doesn’t seem to be much distance between them now.

Jake has left a number of famous hearts broken in his path, but maybe Alyssa is the one to tame him…

The hilarious signs you’re in a committed relationship

Relationships

May 6, 2014

by Amber Saunders

These milestones may seem trivial, or even downright disgusting. But it’s all in the name of true love.

1. Being Sick In Front Of Them

2. Seeing Them Naked In A Non Sexual Scenario

3. Meeting Their Friends

4. Having Them Meet Your Friends

5. Showering Together

6. Having Them Over To Your Place

7. Being Blackout Drunk In Front Of Them

8. The No Make-Up Look

9. Cooking Together

10. Dancing Together

11. Farting In Front Of Them

12. Pooing At Their House For The First Time

13. Getting In A Fight

14. Crying In Front Of Them

15. Going On Holiday Together

16. Introducing Them to Your Family

17. Telling Them How You Really Feel

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Mamma Mia star was too “uptight” for relationship with co-star

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May 2, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Amanda Seyfried doesn’t think her relationship with Dominic Cooper could have lasted.

The Mamma Mia! co-stars split in 2010 after around two years of dating, but the 28-year-old actress thinks they were just too different to stay together for long.

”It would never have worked long-term. I’m too uptight for him. Or he’s too relaxed for me,” she said. ”He’s been with the same girl for ages. I hope they’re happy.”

The star of the upcoming Peter Pan movie is now loved up with actor Justin Long, so it seems it all worked out for the best!

The actress also opened up about the terrifying effect anxiety and obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) had on her when she was younger, saying there were times she thought she was ”crazy”.

She said: ”I feel terrible for the younger me, because I thought I was crazy. Where was the fear coming from? It doesn’t make any sense. ‘I had my anxiety and my OCD – a lot of kids have it. You’re afraid of it; you’re afraid of your brain.”

It’s all over for this actress and her beau

Celebrity

Apr 30, 2014

by Amber Saunders

Olivia Munn has split with her boyfriend of two years, Joel Kinnaman, it has been reported.

Sources say the couple have actually been broken up for a few months now, but they remain firm friends.

The pair were last seen together on Valentine’s Day this year and it is thought that distance played a major part in the break-up since Joel is based in Toronto, while Olivia is now living in L.A.

Olivia didn’t give away any hint of trouble in the relationship in her recent Allure interview for their May edition, where she said that Joel was “truly fantastic.”

5 reasons why you should just break up with him already

Relationships

Apr 29, 2014

by Amber Saunders

It can be really, really hard to break up with someone. Unless you don’t have a conscience, a “welcome to dumpsville, population: you” text should do the trick.

But those of us with a heart often end up staying in relationships way longer than we should for fear of that gut-retching sound of a heart being broken in two.

Here’s why you really should just bite the bullet and break up with him already!

1. Because you’re a good person
OK so you’ll probably break his heart, but it’s kinder to just let him go. He may think you’re the love of his life, but if you’re not feeling it then he’d probably be way happier in the long-run with someone else. And she’ll probably simply adore his woeful taste in music and annoying bathroom habits…

2. You’ll probably cheat
If this guy isn’t floating your boat anymore, the chances are your eye may wonder over to someone who will. All it takes is a tiny spark and a few Martinis at a party for you to be tempted. That longing to connect with someone on your own level again is powerful stuff! Do you really want to be that girl?

3. The relief is sooooo worth it
Be honest with yourself – how many times have you ‘almost’ broken up with him only to chicken out at the last minute when he flashes his puppy-dog eyes. Being in a relationship half-heartedly is really bad for your stress levels, and the indecisiveness can be torturous. While you’ll naturally miss him for a while, the relief you’ll feel will be so worth the temporary icky feeling.

4. You can move on
Hallelujah! You can finally move on with your own life after ending the relationship that’s been making you miserable. Being with the wrong person means you’re cheating yourself out of real happiness and being with someone who makes you really happy!

5. Being single rocks!
If it’s the fear of being on your own after so long that is stopping you from dumping him, don’t be so scared! OK, your newly single status will take some adjusting to but the ‘OMG! RU OK Hon?!’ comments on Facebook will soon stop and you can make the most of it. There’s no better life motivation than a break-up and you’ll soon be gearing up to try all the things you didn’t do because you were snuggled up with the wrong guy on the sofa every weekend.